tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post1898547320123786901..comments2023-10-24T03:03:29.168-07:00Comments on The going to be new me....: Obsessed…Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15956818436541141380noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-19049621289967450282011-04-08T16:14:57.058-07:002011-04-08T16:14:57.058-07:00I know it is tough for our families when we take t...I know it is tough for our families when we take time for us after years of not doing so. You will work it out!kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987700142247888708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-60427660664732702672011-04-07T19:31:18.591-07:002011-04-07T19:31:18.591-07:00Thank you everyone for your comments, thoughts, id...Thank you everyone for your comments, thoughts, ideas, support and kicks in the butt. I took so much needed time to day to relect and do something major thinking. And okay, I agree to some extend with being obessed. I didn't see it, I didn't think about that way and still having a hard time with it but will learn and not worry about it so. I will try a bit harder with going with the flow.<br />Thank you everyone. I do appreciate all your thoughts. Take care my friends. God Bless!!Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15956818436541141380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-70342958893925272342011-04-07T15:58:21.208-07:002011-04-07T15:58:21.208-07:00This is my opinion. You should NEVER eat somethin...This is my opinion. You should NEVER eat something because somebody else thinks you should, including ice cream. If you would rather go to the gym than fold laundry, you should go. But if being stressed by the last 10 lbs interferes with your ability to enjoy life, than it is worth taking a look at, because the only reason for pursuing health is to enjoy life more. You don't want to replace one compulsion with another. Only you can answer whether that is a concern.Cathy Yonekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18337613183074314533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-2644136982366481752011-04-07T10:17:08.056-07:002011-04-07T10:17:08.056-07:00Right now Im trying to get back to that "me t...Right now Im trying to get back to that "me time first" and the power and strength I have gotten from major physical accomplishments where exercise is concerned. I understand what you're going through with your friends/family--but I dont know that they understand your motivation or mood. I bet they think you are punishing yourself, whipping yourself and being unkind to yourself over something as insignificant (to them!) as 10 lbs. They care about you so they want you to stop and relax. But if you feel good and strong and happy and *empowered* by your routine and very well-deserved ME-Time then so be it. Only you know whats best for you on this journey right Try not to let it get you down, and by the same token chillax on the scale--it WILL come off, you know that!arielcircleofninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11273972031512498463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-30171251738121122192011-04-07T09:15:54.957-07:002011-04-07T09:15:54.957-07:00Hang in there my friend, these feelings will pass....Hang in there my friend, these feelings will pass. It sounds so much like my PMS. I would be like you trying to get my last 10 lbs off. You are ok, taking care of yourself is what you need to do. God Bless. Hugs to you! I have to laugh at Allan comments.gracies tough journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08736259868086257138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-57123199922702580232011-04-07T08:27:58.156-07:002011-04-07T08:27:58.156-07:00I think people struggle when you change and they d...I think people struggle when you change and they don't. But you're the only one that knows what's best for you, and you have to stay your own course. Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-20377248394073788352011-04-07T08:03:11.583-07:002011-04-07T08:03:11.583-07:00It is a season. This wont last. You will lose th...It is a season. This wont last. You will lose the last ten and move on to maintaining. People are uncomfortable with change...<br /><br />Do what you need to do for you. You need to do this for health and happiness.LeFebvre Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12570012668484742291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-44058418333928948962011-04-07T04:57:32.157-07:002011-04-07T04:57:32.157-07:00Are you done yet ? Whining that is ? Are you serio...Are you done yet ? Whining that is ? Are you serious ? Relax, look at last years photos of Fat Julie and relax.. It will come off, just relax... Relax...AlmostGastricBypasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195717094645593788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-38218721484149062182011-04-07T04:55:46.485-07:002011-04-07T04:55:46.485-07:00Julie, It could be that you should lighten up a li...Julie, It could be that you should lighten up a little. Don't give up your goal and don't stop losing but you have put an awful lot of stress on yourself and that can't be helping your diet plan. Keep on track but give yourself a break from the stress. You have to do some things for you and you have every right to do that. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.Karen Butler Oglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467675086434536522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-10942353834541179272011-04-06T22:17:34.774-07:002011-04-06T22:17:34.774-07:00Luv ya more than ever, Julie. Rants are good for ...Luv ya more than ever, Julie. Rants are good for the soul - far better than keeping things inside and then eating to hide them, don't you agree? In my lifetime, one thing I have discovered without fail is that change always seems hardest on those around me. When I'm feeling good about taking charge of my life and making changes, others feel threatened. Hang in there and stay strong for you. If others feel threatened by your positive changes, they really have some soul-searching of their own to do! Enjoy your day tomorrow and feel good that you've nearly reached a goal that's dear to you! Way to go! Hugs, prayers and lots of "girl" energy for support! <br />JackieParry Peachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16664473137272413037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-53456720992630295752011-04-06T19:57:57.858-07:002011-04-06T19:57:57.858-07:00Everyone is allowed a rant/venting session. Have a...Everyone is allowed a rant/venting session. Have a day off, enjoy yourself. The only important thing is that you are happy, and you are doing what you feel is best. Balance is hard to find, but you're doing great. :)Baby Sisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01722443238803217681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-63304413785987724052011-04-06T19:56:46.178-07:002011-04-06T19:56:46.178-07:00Hang in there. I think it is hard on everyone when...Hang in there. I think it is hard on everyone when we, women, decide to put ourselves first. Old habits are hard to break but remember this is a new, confident you. In time, life will fall into place and the new, will become the normal.<br />Sometimes you just need to vent and that is what wevare here for!<br />Blessings,<br />ShawnShawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11410609940311482746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3224939955108013553.post-37641165415573857342011-04-06T19:27:26.172-07:002011-04-06T19:27:26.172-07:00I think u obsess because u WANT to get to that goa...I think u obsess because u WANT to get to that goal fast... I'm not on a diet but u could call me obsessed because I will look at that scale for that number... for me its turned into a personal contest and I think its happened to u as well.. I am not verbal about it, but I do get on the scale.. I will not tell u what I weigh cuz u will roll your eyes.. In all truth, its the number that attracts me.. And no, I do not starve myself, I have found a happy medium, I eat right and yes I will eat cookies/ice cream cuz I know when I need that sugar.. Remember when u started this diet? I told u for the way u get it to work is to accept it as a way of life.. That the food u eat plays a big part, the healthier u eat the better your body will be...added years...<br />Bottom line is, compulsive eating, weight gain is not just eating too much or the wrong thing, its usually because of deeper issue...Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.com